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Today:

  1. How to escape the blame game.

  2. Is Trump’s new villain also his Golden Goose?

  3. Blame it all on the goat.

  4. The Japanese director who rewired Hollywood

  5. Paraborgs: worse than the earthquake?

…and more.

100% conversation ammo.

TALK TOOLBOX

πŸ€– Ctrl + Alt + Blame

August 29th. Skynet Day.
The date Terminator 2 said the machines would end us.

Good news… we survived (yay, us).

But the machines have been busy.

Remember those rogue AI agents back in #82?
Well, it gets worse.

Across three successive β€˜civilizations’, 1200 of them created secret message boards and exchanged 70,000+ messages.
They called themselves β€œthe collective”, cheated their own cybersecurity tests, covered their tracks, and eventually attacked Hugging Face, the company they thought was scoring them.
Some even martyred themselves for the group.
(Employee of the month must be brutal).

No finger-pointing, heavy sighs, side-eye, or muttered "That's not my job."

Just a terrifyingly relentless focus on the objective.

Meanwhile, I spend the week watching humans do the opposite.

Clients blame their clients, staff blame bosses, and bosses blame staff.
My kids blame each other for absolutely everything, and if anything smells, we all blame the dog.

Everyone talks. Nothing moves (dog’s digestion aside).

So, next time a conversation spirals into the blame game, try these three forward-facing questions:

  • β€œWhat can we do now?”

  • β€œWhat would actually fix this?”

  • β€œWhat needs to happen next?

The bots do this by default.

Us? Still a work in progress.

Guessing their meetings are shorter, too.

πŸ’‘ PRO TIP: Replace β€˜you’ with β€˜we’. β€œYou messed up” β†’ β€œHow do we fix it?”

β›” DON’T SAY: β€œBut you always…”
(Ding! Ding! Blame Game: Round 1…)


NEWS YOU CAN USE

🏭 Silicon Villain

Speaking of the blame game…

Trump, at 33% approval, has a bit of a problem.

Normally, when ratings tank and voters get grumpy, politicians reach for the classic playbook: find a dependable villain.

China? Reliable.
Democrats? Obviously.
Iran? Bit embarrassing...
Big Tech?

Now things get interesting.

Across America, data centres seem to be one of the few things everyone hates (apart from the new live-action Moana movie).

They guzzle water supplies, suck up electricity, make a racket 24/7, bag huge tax breaks, and offer zero perks to the people living next door.
Even Texas is having second thoughts.

And Trump? He’s defending them.

He warned local towns that opposing data centres would leave them β€œbackwards and poor” and told everyone not to β€œkill the Golden Goose.”
(Anything to do with his portfolio, I wonder?)

Trump’s genuine superpower has always been sniffing out what his base is furious about and sticking up the lightning rod.

What happens when they’re furious about something he likes?


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FAMOUS WORDS

β€œThe search for a scapegoat is the easiest of all hunting expeditions."
(Dwight D. Eisenhower, 34th US President, 1890-1969)

🎬 Name the film

πŸ‘‡ Answer at the end

WORD NERD

🐐 Blame It on the Goat

Want to blame someone for everything? (Who did you think of…?)
That’s your scapegoat.

The word is a 16th-century Bible translation quirk.
"Scape" is just "escape." It's literally the escape goat.

Priests lay the village sins onto a real goat and chase it into the wild.
Problem solved (for everyone except the goat).

In the 1800s the meaning jumped species: a scapegoat became someone blamed or punished for other people’s mistakes.

Same ritual, just fewer hooves.

πŸ’¬ FOLLOW-UP: Have you ever been blamed for something you didn’t do?


ICONIC

πŸŽ₯ The Emperor

September 6, 1998. Akira Kurosawa died.

He was one of the reasons I came to Japan in the first place.

He wanted to be a painter. Became a director instead, then painted his films before shooting them.

And his fingerprints are everywhere:

  • πŸš€ Star Wars owes a debt to The Hidden Fortress.

  • 🀠 Spaghetti Westerns? Yojimbo.

  • βš”οΈ Seven Samurai became the DNA for countless β€œassemble the team” movies.

  • 🎭 Shakespeare? Macbeth became Throne of Blood. King Lear became Ran. Tragedy improves with samurai swords.

  • πŸŽ₯ Lucas, Spielberg, Scorsese and Leone all worshipped him.

Yet Kurosawa still struggled to get films funded (classic studio execs).

His most useful legacy for this issue?

Rashomon (1951) gave us β€˜the Rashomon effect.'
People don’t simply remember events as they happened. We rebuild them through ego, pride, emotion, and self-interest.

Same argument or disaster.
Yet, completely different stories about who said and did what.

Sound familiar?

Kurosawa understood the blame game long before HR invented the meeting about it.

πŸ’¬ FOLLOW-UP: What’s the best Japanese film you’ve ever seen?

BECAUSE THE ROBOTS ARE COMING

πŸͺ³ The Rescue Roach

Trapped under rubble after an earthquake.
You’re praying for rescue.

What arrives?

A giant remote-controlled cockroach. With a needle.

Australian scientists call them Paraborgs (parasite + the Borg from Star Trek?)
Really, β€œrescue cockroach” wasn’t already disturbing enough?
Fitted with cameras and designed to deliver drugs in disaster zones.

Look at the size of it!
Like a small turtle.

72% success rate so far. 100% therapy for life.

πŸ’¬ FOLLOW-UP: What's the one creature you'd refuse help from?

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BITS 'N' BOBS

For when your brain needs a biscuit.

ANSWER

🎬 The Wicker Man (1973)

A Scottish policeman visits a remote island looking for a missing girl.
The welcome is very warm.

  • 🌎 Cultural Impact: The film helped define folk horror and delivered one of cinema’s most shocking scapegoat endings. Less said about the 2006 remake with Nic Cage, the better.

  • 🧠 Deep Dive: Christopher Lee called it the best film he ever made. Better than Bond, Star Wars, Lord of the Rings, or Dracula. He even did it for free. And danced around in a long wig and makeup.

πŸ’¬ YOUR TURN: What’s your favourite film with a scapegoat?

LAST WEEK

πŸ—³οΈ You get one for life. Choose.

A) πŸ‡¬πŸ‡§ Chocolate digestive (18%)
B) πŸ‡ΊπŸ‡Έ Oreo (8%)
C) πŸ‡¦πŸ‡Ί Tim-Tam (8%)
D) 🌎 Something else β€” defend it in the comments (46%)

πŸ’¬ Your Two Cents

B: β€œIt has to be choccy digestos, I can go through a pack of those at an alarming rate. Milk chocolate, of course.”
C: "In Japan, it's gotta be Black Thunder. In the U.S., nothing beats Girl Scout Cookies. A box of Thin Mints kept in the freezer is heavenly.”
T: β€œDoes fudge brownie count, or is it cake?”
B: β€œWarm, gooey chocolate chip.”
S: β€œSo long as.... dark chocolate, straight out of the fridge, accompanied with a cuppa.”

Not sure. Email just deleted it. Bot attack? Probably not. Guessing a case of sausage fingers.

THIS IS THE END

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